Cannot Understand Normal Thinking

So my wife did the stereotypical bullshit thing that stereotypes were made after. We used to screw around doing all the fun stuff. Like like knobers in the kitchen when my buddies are on the other side of the wall, hand jobs in the fucking restaurant under the table. Telling me about her ex girlfriend. Which was dirty hot. Y'all know. Cool fun shit. Then  the moment I married her it all stopped. Like everything stopped. I was limited sex once a week like a wifely duty for her.  Unless she was unhappy with me for whatever reason, then maybe one a month. Hell, I had a high sex drive. And so did she. Until she got a ring on her finger. Then it was "my vagina makes the rules."  I don't know why I put up with it for so many years. Im not the kind of guy who will allow that shit to rule me. Alpha and shit. Then it was a battle of wills. Seems so stupid now. Fuck!   Bitch actually tells me "I don't need to impress you! I already got you!" What a fuckin lame. As far as I'm concerned you should try and impress your spouse everyday. Little things matter most.